Edmond Child Custody Lawyers

Helping Families with Child Custody Arrangements in Oklahoma City & Oklahoma County 

If you are a dad trying to get custody of your children, you might feel that you have huge obstacles to overcome. That is not necessarily the case. The law in Oklahoma is gender neutral. If a skilled family attorney can prove that your lifestyle accommodates caring for your children and that you have been an involved parent, your chances of getting joint custody are excellent.

If you wish to gain sole custody of your children, you must prove their mother is less fit than you are for custody. Doing so is difficult and stressful and could lead to prolonged litigation. However, an Edmond child custody lawyer at The Smith Firm could prepare a robust case and argue strenuously before the court to protect your children.

Get started on your child custody proceedings with an initial consultation. Call us at (405) 331-7884 or reach out using our online form.

Understanding What is Considered With Child Custody Decisions

Child custody arrangements can significantly affect not only the lives of parents but also the emotional and psychological well-being of children. At The Smith Firm, we believe it is crucial for parents to understand the long-term implications of custody decisions. Our experienced attorneys are dedicated to guiding you through this complex process, ensuring that your child's best interests remain at the forefront.

Here are some key factors to consider when navigating child custody:

• Child's Age and Needs: Different age groups have varying needs. Tailoring arrangements to fit your child's developmental stage can lead to better outcomes.
• Parental Involvement: Courts often favor arrangements that encourage active participation from both parents, fostering a supportive environment for your child.
• Stability and Routine: Maintaining a consistent routine can help children feel secure during transitions. Our attorneys can help you establish a custody plan that promotes stability.
• Communication and Cooperation: Effective communication between parents can ease tensions and create a more amicable co-parenting relationship, which benefits the child.
• Future Modifications: Custody arrangements can change as circumstances evolve. Understanding how to navigate modifications can help you adapt to new situations.

By working with The Smith Firm, you can ensure that your custody arrangements not only meet legal requirements but also prioritize the emotional well-being of your child. 

What Is the Standard Visitation Schedule?

The word “custody” encompasses two ideas—the physical care of the children and the right to make important decisions about their education, religion, healthcare, and activities. The custodial parent is the parent who provides a home for the children most of the time. The parent with the children at the time makes day-to-day decisions about chores, homework, screen time, and similar issues.

• Sole Physical Custody: If one parent has sole physical custody, the children live with that parent most of the time, and the other parent has standard visitation rights. 
• Standard Visitation Rights: Standard visitation in Oklahoma means the non-custodial parent keeps the children every other weekend and every other holiday. However, parents are free to make different arrangements if another schedule works better for them.
• Joint Legal Custody: Courts often award joint legal custody even when they designate one parent to have sole physical custody. Joint legal custody means the parents share decision-making authority. In some cases, the court will designate one parent to have the final say when the parents disagree. In other cases, the judge might designate a third party or require the parents to attend mediation to resolve disputes about their children.

Courts Often Award Joint Custody to Parents

Joint custody means that each parent gets substantial time living with the children and shares the authority to make major decisions. Joint custody could mean each parent keeps the children roughly 50 percent of the time, but more often, one parent keeps the children only on weekends and holidays. In general, having the children 120 nights per year or more is joint custody.

In most cases, the children shuttle between their parents’ households—but in some cases—they might stay in one place, and the parents take turns living in the family home. A capable attorney could help a parent develop a custody arrangement that works best for their family.

If the parents agree and can work together to co-parent effectively, courts support a joint custody arrangement that allows both parents to have significant time with the children. Parents who choose joint custody must submit a detailed plan explaining how the children will divide their time, who will handle transporting them to school and activities, and other practical issues.