
Edmond Divorce Lawyers
Divorce Attorneys Serving Oklahoma City & Oklahoma County
Deciding to end your marriage is a big step, and you could struggle with uncertainty. You might be wondering how to preserve your relationship with your children and how you will make it work financially.
The experienced Edmond divorce lawyers at The Smith Firm understand your concerns and will work to help you get the results you want from your divorce. Every divorce involves some compromise, but our attorneys will listen to your goals and work hard to meet them.
Call us today at (405) 331-7884 or reach out online to request your consultation with an Edmond divorce attorney.
Filing for a Divorce
Oklahoma does not require a couple to live separately before divorcing. The only requirement is that one spouse lives in the state for at least six months before either spouse files for divorce.
The spouse who files for divorce must state a reason, also called the grounds. Courts in this state recognize 12 legal grounds. One of them—incompatibility—is a no-fault ground. The other 11 require the petitioner to offer proof of their spouse’s wrongdoing.
Filing on the grounds of incompatibility is usually recommended, as a couple does not have to produce and make public evidence of very private matters. However, proving abandonment, cruelty, substance abuse, adultery, or another fault-based ground could influence a judge’s decisions on spousal maintenance and child custody. A seasoned attorney from The Smith Firm could discuss whether proving fault in a divorce is worthwhile in a specific case.
Making Custody & Visitation Decisions
Judges must base child custody decisions on the best interests of the child.
They consider multiple factors when determining the child’s best interest, including:
- The mental and physical health of all parties
- The relationship between each parent and the child
- Practical considerations like whether a parent’s work schedule allows them to be an actively involved parent
In some cases, a court might appoint a guardian ad litem or a parenting evaluator to get to know the family and make recommendations regarding custody and visitation. A parent could request a guardian ad litem or custody evaluation, or the judge might independently decide a guardian ad litem or custody evaluation would be helpful.
Courts favor allowing both parents ample access to the children. Parents who communicate well and whose schedules permit joint custody could seek an arrangement where the children spend at least one-third of their time with each parent. If joint custody does not work logistically, a skilled divorce lawyer in Edmond could help a parent create a parenting plan that allows for significant time with their children.

Honoring Families. Defending Futures.
What Sets Us Apart From The Rest?
At The Smith Firm, our work is guided by core values: integrity, compassion, and commitment. We believe in honest communication, dedicated advocacy, and treating every client with the respect they deserve. These principles shape how we approach every case, ensuring you feel supported and empowered throughout your legal journey.
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Family law can be overwhelming, but you’re not alone. We’re here to provide clear guidance, support, and answers every step of the way.
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Our clients’ feedback speaks for itself—highlighting our commitment to responsive service, strong advocacy, and real results.
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We’ve helped thousands of Oklahomans navigate family law challenges with personalized attention and dedicated advocacy.
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For over 30 years, we’ve provided steady legal support, using our experience to protect what matters most to Oklahoma families.
Resolving Financial Issues
When a couple divorces, Oklahoma Statute §43-121B requires them to separate their marital property in a fair and just manner, though not necessarily equal. Each spouse retains the property and debt that was theirs before marriage. Unless they have a prenuptial agreement stating otherwise, everything else either spouse acquired during the marriage is marital property that they must divide.
Inheritances are usually separate property, even if a spouse received the inheritance during the marriage. However, a court will look at whether the spouse who inherited treated the inheritance as their own. If the spouse used part of the inheritance to upgrade the family home, for example, a court might decide the spouse intended the money to be marital property.
A judge considers various factors when deciding how to divide marital property and has considerable discretion. If the spouses can reach a property division agreement while the divorce is pending, a judge will typically accept it. A proactive divorce attorney could negotiate a fair property division settlement with the other spouse’s legal representative.

Contact an Attorney for Representation
Divorcing is a stressful process with the potential to impact your finances and your relationship with your children forever. You owe it to yourself to work with a divorce lawyer with the knowledge and experience to help you reach your goals.
Put yourself in the hands of an attorney who focuses on helping people get through a divorce in the best position to start their new lives. Schedule a consultation with The Smith Firm today.