
Edmond Same-Sex Divorce Lawyers
The laws on same-sex divorce in the state of Oklahoma are the same as those for other couples. Resolving a divorce settlement involves a range of potentially complex and contentious issues, and our lawyers are skilled at solving them. We’ve served clients throughout Oklahoma County since 2008 with compassion, responsiveness, and professional savvy. You can trust us to work hard to protect your interests.
Moreover, we bring a strong spirit of compassion to all we do. The attorneys and staff in our Edmond office know that the people coming to us for help in a divorce case are often going through some personal pain and are facing the anxiety that can come with beginning a new era in life. We can’t remove the personal pain—as much as we wish we could. However, we can offer you the peace of mind that comes from knowing your lawyer has a firm grasp of Oklahoma law and all of the issues that have to be worked out in a divorce settlement.
Call (405) 331-7884 today to schedule a consultation.
Issues to Resolve in a Divorce Settlement
Every situation is different, but the topics that typically have to be worked out—either through negotiation, mediation, or litigation—usually include these:
Property Division
Oklahoma follows the principle of equitable distribution when dividing property in a divorce. This does not necessarily mean a 50/50 split but rather a fair division based on each couple's circumstances and contributions.
To begin with, the court identifies all property as either marital or separate. The wedding date is the fundamental demarcation point. Marital property includes assets acquired since that date, such as homes, vehicles, or joint accounts. Separate property, however, consists of assets acquired before that date. The exceptions to this rule are inheritances or gifts designated for just one person.
Oklahoma encourages parties to reach a property division settlement out of court. If an agreement cannot be made, a judge will decide based on the evidence presented.
Child Custody
Child custody decisions in Oklahoma prioritize the best interests of the child. There are two types of custody arrangements to consider—legal custody and physical custody.
Legal custody refers to a parent's ability to make significant decisions about the child’s life, such as education, healthcare, and religious practices. Physical custody, on the other hand, determines where the child will live and which parent will provide day-to-day care.
The court considers various factors in deciding custody arrangements. These include the child’s relationship with each parent, their emotional and physical needs, and each person's ability to provide a stable environment. Additionally, the court evaluates the willingness of both parents to facilitate a positive relationship with the other parent. If the child is old enough, their preferences may also be considered, though this is not the sole determinant.
Custody can be awarded as sole or joint custody. Joint custody allows each person to share decision-making responsibilities and ample time with the child. Sole custody, however, grants one party primary rights and responsibilities if it is deemed to better serve the child’s best interests.

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Child Support
Oklahoma sets child support based on state guidelines designed to cover the financial needs of the child and facilitate equity between the parents. The court uses the Oklahoma Child Support Guidelines, which account for each party’s income, the number of children, and other relevant factors.
Child support is calculated using a formula that combines the income of both parties to determine a base support obligation. Additional considerations include medical expenses, childcare costs, and educational needs. The court may require one or both to provide health insurance for the child or contribute toward necessary uncovered medical expenses.
If the non-custodial party fails to meet their support obligations, Oklahoma has enforcement mechanisms such as wage garnishment, license suspension, or even contempt proceedings. Child support orders can be modified if circumstances change, such as significant shifts in income or a change in custody arrangements.
Spousal Support
Spousal support—also known as alimony—provides financial assistance to the lower-earning party, allowing them to maintain a reasonable lifestyle after the divorce.
Several factors influence the court’s decision on whether to award support and in what amount. These factors include the duration of time, the financial resources and earning potential of both parties, and their contributions to the relationship.
For instance, if one person sacrifices their career to support the other's professional growth, this might impact the court’s decision. The court also considers the receiving party’s ability to become self-supporting. If the lower-earning party needs additional education or training to secure employment, temporary support may be granted to cover these needs.
Support payments in Oklahoma can be awarded as lump sums or installments. Awards are generally temporary and designed to bridge the financial gap until the receiving party gains financial independence.

Legal Help for Same-Sex Divorce
Our lawyers work with clients here in Edmond, the Oklahoma City area, and beyond. We know that people go through difficult times, and we’re determined to work hard for you, to secure a settlement that will help you move on to the next chapter of your life.
Call (405) 331-7884 or contact us online today to schedule a consultation.